Busy Busy Busy

I know its been some time since I've updated my blog but circumstances dictated that I did not have time to do it (some others call this circumstances lazyness... but I disagree!) :)

Anyhow, the thing I have been busy doing is attending weddings and helping out at weddings and er.. attending weddings :)

LEt me just say that my friends LOVE to have weddings away from Ipoh! hahaha... But if it wasn't for their weddings at their respective out of town places... I may never have been there! :)

First we had Clarence and Suet Ling at the Andaman Langkawi! Beautiful Wedding... great looking beach with white sandy beaches (unfortunately cannot really swim cos a lot of rocks!). Congrats Clarence n Suet Ling aka Moi! hahaha... U 2 make a lovely couple and your theme was so apt... "FINALLY!" hahahah...

Then this was followed by Wei Han n Gaik in KL at the Maison? I can't remember the name but the place was beautiful! Great place to have a wedding party guys! U 2 looked good! From what I hear the later part of the party was even better! hahhaha... Shhh... I will not tell the world what u did Wei Han!! :) Congratulations to you 2 lovely people!

This was quickly followed by my Brother Gavin Tang and Evelyn's wedding in Ipoh and a week later in Kuching! This was the hectic one as I had been tasked to deliver his Best man speech... which I finally got it ALL done on the day of the wedding dinner at 4pm. Sorry lar bro.. dunno wat to say lar... u had me on such a tight leash on what I could and could not say... :P I think the dinner went well... It was new to see you cry (while sober I mean!) Hahahahaa :)

Then Kuching came along... All I thought I was supposed to do there was eat, drink, sleep and be merry... see see kena con into doing the co-emcee job and then kena con by co-emcee until i was emcee only! hahaha... I am such an easily conned fella lar... :) Kuching was great...for Kolo Mee! *Burp* "Kolo Mee...Cham Ang... Ai Kiaw" Wonder if that is right? hahahha... oh well... Still it was a nice wedding in Kuching... would have been better if I didn't have to do any work! heh heh :)
Congrats Gavin n Evelyn... U 2 make a lovely couple!

SO thats the travelogue so far... In between there were trips to KL for work and play :) a few malang car problems... stupid engine won't start after I got back from Kuching... bye bye RM1800... sigh... Then when I got back and sent my car for repainting of teh bonnet... byebye RM300 and then some fool knocked into the spare car n got it all dented at the back (luckily the fool had to pay for it...drunk at 2.2opm man!! on a Friday!) and then I went and scratched the car I just repainted the bonnet...on the side doors... 3 panels and repainting...sigh.,.. byebye RM500 again.... Fuck man...damn kau bad luck!

I need to go mandi bunga liao... now to search for 7 different types of bunga....

I will post up pics of my trips soon... :P

Oh yeah before I forget...

MERRY CHRISTMAS AND A HAPPY NEW YEAR!!!!

Of Sharks and Lawyers

I contributed this article originally for the Putik Lada column in Star but was asked to write another different one so I submitted this article to our own Perak Bar Blogspot and it was put up there some time last week :)

So I'll reproduce here for those who wanna read it as well :)


“Q : Why did the shark not eat the lawyer when his boat sank in the ocean?

A : Professional Courtesy”



There are many more jokes of that nature to be found everywhere. So the question is, why would one still want to be a lawyer? Especially in this day and age. Is it because it is an easy path? Does it pay really well? Maybe they just like to be the brunt of a multitude of jokes out there? Who knows? I cannot say for certain why others read law but I know why I did.


I would like to say that I was inspired by the likes of Clarence Darrow or Abraham Lincoln but that would be lie! And as George Washington said when he cut down the cherry tree, “I cannot tell a lie!” (Not really in this case – but I digress…) I would say that television played a greater part in influencing me rather than the great lawyers out there.


I was first influenced by my father who gave up teaching and turned to law. Much of what I knew about law and lawyers came from television. So much so, I read law in the Thames Valley University (TVU) – TV University? Get it?

I remember watching movies such as Ally McBeal, The Practice and a number of other “lawyer” movies thinking that these people had it great! Cool cars and lots of money to boot! Wow… this is the life for me.


So I found myself on the path of becoming a lawyer, reading law, getting myself a law degree and then found myself chambering (doing my pupilage) at a reknowned law firm in Ipoh and finally found myself in practice on my own.


Did the path lead to riches and cool cars as promised? Not really… but in becoming a practicing lawyer I have come to realise something that I have never known before but it is something I feel that one should know about way before thinking of taking up this profession. A small word, seven letters in all but with a whole lot of implications and responsibilities. JUSTICE.


Now what do I mean by this? This may sound a bit naïve or aloof; but I believe that lawyers are the last line of defence against tyranny. As Edmund Burke once said, “All that is necessary for the triumph of evil is that good men do nothing” and I truly believe that lawyers are good men and women. They have been trained to do good, to uphold justice; to make sure that each and everyone gets his day in court. Of course many other factors are needed to contribute to ensuring a just society.


Having said that; to me, the most important thing to ensure that justice is upheld or preserved is the man itself. As lawyers, we are trained to assist the courts in interpreting the law. Whilst we are advocating our client’s rights and case we must be aware that we are first officers of the court. Our loyalties should lie with the law first, the courts second and then only the client. You would notice however that the lawyers themselves are not even mentioned in the top 3! I know that most of the people who think of lawyers associate us with Sharks and other things which I will not repeat here but that view may not be entirely true (There are always bad apples in any basket!)


For me, in order for someone to take up this profession they must bear in mind that as in everything we do, hard work is essential. Reading and keeping ourselves updated on the law is a requirement. A passion for law and justice should be a pre-requisite. It’s not easy if we want to be a good lawyer.


We lawyers (some of us anyway) are probably the only ones in this world that has set up a Legal Aid centre entirely funded by the lawyers themselves. We pay a yearly subscription towards this fund to help underprivileged and deprived people who cannot afford to engage lawyers on their own and we help them advocate their case in court. Of course there are criteria which have to be met before we can help but at the end of the day the lawyers through the Bar Council has set up such centres throughout the country to assist the public in their woes for FREE!


There are also some lawyers out there who have been remanded, jailed and fined for upholding their client’s rights. Giving up their own liberty to ensure that others may have theirs!


In recent times, we have seen the Bar Council take up issues which affect the public in general such as the independence of the Judiciary as in the case of the Tun Salleh Abas fiasco. The lawyers marched for judicial independence then and recently the Bar council stand has been proven to be the right one. An independent judiciary is the cornerstone of any successful legal system and democratic country.


The Bar council again walked for Justice after the V.K.Lingam recordings were made public, asking for a Royal Commission to be set up to investigate the recordings and the allegations therein contained in the video recordings. The lawyers wore full court attire (jackets and ties) and walked in the sun and the rain for almost 5 kilometres to Putrajaya to hand over the memorandum to the Prime Minister’s office.


So its not always about the money and the cool cars (having it doesn’t hurt of course!) but at the end of the day its about justice and how as lawyers we are there to ensure it is available to all. So before anyone seeks to venture into this profession, make sure you are willing and able to contribute positively towards the profession and to the people. If you cannot, then this path may not be the right one for you; for it is not always paved in gold but mostly in pain and heartbreak in the pursuit of justice.


As Martin Luther King once said, “Injustice anywhere is a threat to justice everywhere”


I truly believe that lawyers can and will pursue justice wherever they may be. I still do!


Are we still the sharks that we are thought out to be? You decide…


Submitted by Kenny Lai Choe Ken

Forum on Blogging and Defamation

For those who are interested... The KL Bar Committee has organised something useful for all bloggers out there... :) Those who can should!

To all,

The Information Technology Committee of KL Bar is organising a Forum. Below are the important info:-

Title : Forum on Blogging & Defamation Laws

Date : 23rd October 2008
Day : Thursday
Time : 6 pm to 8 pm (But may stretch to 830pm)
Location : Bar Council Auditorium.
Entrance : Free

Speakers:-

1. Jeff Ooi (Member of Parliament and Blogger)
2. Foong Cheng Leong (Advocate & Solicitor and Blogger)
3. Nizam Bashir (Advocate & Solicitor and Blogger)


The Forum is open to the public. Feel free to attend. Should you have any enquiry, and wish to book a place to sit, please contact KLBC's Executive Officer, Ms Melissa at melissa@klbar.org.my or at 603-2693 3585

Weddings and such...

These coming months are gonna be busy for me... LOts of weddings to attend and be involved in... unfortunate (or fortunately??) none of them are my own.

3 of my best buds are getting married and I am estatic for them! Congrats Clarence, Gavin and Wei Han! I know you have found the best and the most suitable women out there for yourselves! :)

One wedding is in Langkawi, the other in Ipoh and Sarawak and the final one in KL. So will be travelling a lot the coming months.

On top of all that am organising the Perak Bar Annual Dinner... why did I fix the dates so close together? Why? Why? Why? AAArrrrrggghhhh.....

Print invite, tickets, posters and sell them... oh selling the tix are a pain!! A real pain! come on lar... just buy the darn tickets without giving so much crap... not that expensive lar.. only RM100 for a dinner with one of a kind entertainment (Mano Maniam in his one of a kind stand up routine). Shouldn't be that difficult to sell rite? WRONG!! Oh btw, free flow of beer on top of that! Still cannot sell?? Why lar... once a year only! sheesh... and people wonder why no one wants to volunteer for the posts of committee members of the Perak Bar.

Oh and one other thing.. I'm poor now... no money! Please send money to me! PLEASE!! hahahhaa

I think I have to start charging clients a whole lot more for the crap they make me go through for them. Hmm... lets say a minimum 50% increase... ? yeah...sounds about rite! :P

Getting Old-er

Today is the eve of my 32nd Birthday.... Yes... I'm turning 32... (Damn it!). I don't feel that old but I have been recently looking back on my own personal achievements or lack thereof. I've come to the conclusion that whilst some people have made their millions by the time the turn 25 I am far from it... really far... really really far... you get what I am trying to say...

However, I think (I hope) that I have made all the richer with the friends that I have met along the way and to some extent even the foes (though I don't remember to ever holding any grudge against anyone). I think they are ones who give me my colour (its yellow as in chinky yellow by the way :) ) and my background.

I don't think I am one to dwell on unhappiness and I believe I have a cheery disposition (though in recent times I've seen myself to be a bit grumpy... probably due to old age! :) )

I would like to just say that I'm glad to have you guys as my friends. I thank you for your putting up with me. I'm grateful that you have stuck with me through thick and thin (though I think I am always the thick and never the thin despite my efforts!! :)) Hahaha...

And so... I offer you my toast! To great friends and wonderful companions! Salute!

Rest in Peace Tua Ee

Its been a real bad 30 days for me... My aunt just passed away... It was all so sudden... Mum's devastated and frankly so am I. No one expected this... She was fine the last time my mum saw her which was 2 days before she passed away. Suddenly... sigh...

Life is just too short. We never know what is gonna happen tomorrow. I think I need to live for today. If we see something we want just get it. If we want to do something, just do it. If you see someone you like just go for it! Life is just too damn short to wait on. It'll just pass you by and before you really know it... its gone.

I will miss her presence at our regular Pangkor CNY excursions. She was always full of fun and laughter. To Uncle Paul, Kenneth, Douglas and Vincent... my deepest condolences.

I miss her already... Rest in Peace Tua Ee...

Sombre weekend...

The Perak-Penang Bar Games were held in Ipoh this past weekend. I was the organising chairman of the games this time round... It was supposed to be a fun time with meeting friends and having games and drinking non stop... but something happened which threw everything awry.

Whilst we were playing futsal, a friend collapsed face first unto the court... I did all I could... One of the Penang girls and I performed CPR to try to revive him but it was not to be... He was pronounced dead on arrival at the hospital.

I just can't believe it... Its surreal... All I know is that his demise is a tragic loss to the bar and to his friends. He was by all accounts a penultimate gentleman and a great sportsman. A great friend and a wonderful family man...

We will miss him...

Rest In Peace Thina...